Instruction
"Erickson said early in adolescent we suffer from identity confusion because we are uncertain how to make these choices, this confusion continues until we truly know who we are and what we wish to be in the future. Conflict with parents is expected, Erikson and his mentor, like Anna Freud, posited, and not only unavoidable but necessary for healthy individualization from the parents" ( Page 158, Born to be wild ).
"In 1960 and 70s, as Lawrence Steinberg observed, we found that the vast majority of teens are satisfied, even happy with the relationship they have with their parents" ( pane 159)